What does one say about oneself? What defines me? Is it that I have been married for almost 14 years? Is it that I am the mother of 4 boys? Is it that I live in sin-city? Is it that I am 40 pounds over weight? What is it? It is all of these things -or so much more? I do not think it is the things I do that make me who I am – of course what I do impacts who I am and who I am influences what I do? Hum right now I am a happily married, stay-at-home mom – out of work school teacher who gave up on her mission to beat the pound for pound challenge.